Archived entries for life

Holstee Video by Keveen (KORAKOR)

A few years ago, I was travelling through France and decided to spend a few days CouchSurfing with Keveen. Little did I know he would be constant inspiration and source of positive energy for years to come. There are few people in the world with as much positive energy as this man, and his true goal in life is to tirelessly spread his love to the world.

In a recent visit to New York he captured some amazing footage of Mike and I, and the Holstee environment. After watching the video it was clear that he had a vision, but the recording experience seemed so effortless and came so natural that you could have never guessed the production quality and direction of the short clip.

I am so proud to be connected with Keveen and the Korakor adventure, and I look forward to working together with Korakor to help spread the love!

SSCP + Mention in NY Times

Yesterday marks a milestone in my life, I got a mention in the NY Times for participating in the Secret Society of Creative Philanthropy. Here is the full story of how I joined and where my $100 bucks went:

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How it started:

A few months ago I met Marissa, a co-founder of If We Ran It. Together with other people involved in the If We Ran It project they hosted a dinner to kick off the project. There I met Chris, the President of a the Secret Society of Creative Philanthropy… and the story begins: He explained the SSCP, but to be honest, I didn’t really get what it was all about. I just thought, this guy chris is super cool – and this sounds very mysterious…I knew there was a social component but need to learn more!

One day I got an email from Chris saying something along the lines of “It’s time…” I didn’t know exactly what to do, but I was excited as anything to do it!

Chris stopped by the Holstee office with two envelopes, each containing a single $100 bill. The envelope also had a letter which outlined that the $100 needed to be used to create a positive impact, with a few inspiring past stories to get the juices flowing.

I still didn’t fully understand whose money it was, but part of me didn’t want to ask because I kind of dug the mysterious do good-ing element.

What I did:

The first day of getting the money was exciting and liberating. But as time passed it became a bit worrisome : “would I find the right person”, “how will i know they really need it”.. etc.

There is an elderly woman who walks down avenue B, as early as there is light and collects bottles, cans, and other recyclables that return a deposit. This woman was always an inspiration. No matter what the weather she was up early, trolleying around an enormous load and doing something amazing for the planet.

I’m not an expert on logistics or recycling, but based on my observation this woman has developed a system ahead of its time. Recycling is great, but the massive diesel trucks that wind through the city collect more than what can effectively be recycled and create a lot of pollution in the process. What this entrepreneurial senior citizen has developed is an amazingly effective recycling process. She sorts the bottles directly from consumers waste into her trolley and walks them about 10 blocks to a local drop off where she is rewarded for her work. From there the bottles are already crushed and sorted and ready to be sent out.

How it happened:

One morning I was up early walking and spotted this women collecting bottles, she was a good bit ahead of me so I ran ahead. Before reaching her, I took a moment to jot a quick note on my envelope. As cheesey as it sounds, I wrote: “THANKS FOR SAVING THE PLANET”, it was the first thing that came to mind, and exactly how I felt.

I ran up to give this woman my letter. As it turned out she didn’t speak any english. When I reached out handing her the envelope she instantly refused to accept it. Using hand gestures I pleaded for her to accept. Initially I didn’t want her to see the money in front of me, for fear that she would be uncomfortable. The message wasn’t getting through though, so I asked her to open it first. She opened it and to my surprise, refused it with even more excitement – not the reaction I was expecting.

I smiled, said thank you, bowed, thanked and about every other physical gesture I can make to show her it was a gift of gratitude. She eventually cracked a smile and began carting on. Halfway down the block she looked back and shouted “Thank you!”

What a way to start a monday morning…

resolutions twenty ten

2010About two weeks ago I took a moment to jot down a few of the things that I wanted to start doing more, and I am using the new year to break into these healthy and fun habits.

While writing down the resolutions, I got some great advice from Fabian. He said more important than writing each new goal is writing why its important to you. Writing why serves as a constant motivation to act on them.

While most of the things are pretty surface level, they are all things I would be proud to accomplish and accordingly I tried to make them as tangible and realistic as possible. I also wanted to make sure they were personal and not professional goals, we already do lots of milestone and goal setting at Holstee.

resolution
:: why
:::: how

50 push ups a day
:: to stay strong till i die
:::: get up and do them first thing when i wake up

one book every 2 months
:: to keep my brain fresh and awake
:::: read every night, figure out how many pages a week/night to finish book and stick to goals

one small sketch a day
:: to get comfortable drawing
:::: have a daily alarm set for the afternoon (4pm) when creativity starts to decrease to sketch something

run 4 miles a week
:: improve cardiovascular health
:::: run every other day, make up miles on runday (Sunday)

learn piano
:: to learn to play songs and make music (not sound)
:::: log playing time try for 3 hours a week

Learnings from Sir Sherlock Holmes

sherlock-holmes-silhouette-largeI made a conscious decision to read a fictional short story to break some of the heavier reading I typically lean towards. With the recommendation of my brother I picked up “A Study in Scarlet” a Sherlock Holmes classic.

I enjoyed the read through and through from start to finish. On the last page of the short story Sherlock summarizes how he so accurately was able to understand and solve the case.

“In solving a problem of this sort, the grand thing is to be able to reason backward. That is a very useful accomplishment, and a very easy one, but people do not practise it much. In the everyday affairs of life it is much easier to reason forward, and so the other comes to be neglected.”

In operating Holstee we often think about the long term goals – growth, reach, new products, new experiences. Our partner and advisor, Fabian does an amazing job of helping keeping our eyes on the horizon – as Sherlock mentions, it’s just too easy to focus on the “everyday affairs of life” creating and reacting to items that appear on our daily radars.

This quote for Sherlock served as a great reminder to the importance of knowing where you want to take your dreams. People always say if you don’t know where you are going you will never get there – and I couldn’t sagree more. The next step is taking that goal and thinking analytically on how to get there.

I know this sort of Tony Robbins, self-fulfilling prophecy, style of thinking isn’t new news for you – and it wasn’t for me. All the same I think the idea of “solving the case” of our dreams and aspirations by thinking backwards is worth taking a moment to do more than think about. The real benefit comes from writing it.

If you are like me you have heard it, and felt inspired by it a million times – but have never actually taken the time to actually write it.

For me, this time is different. I am going to write it – and you should too :-)

Whether it develops into a strategic plan with measurable milestones for your business or the direction you want to see your personal life evolve into – write it down. I can’t see how you could regret it.

understanding new lifestyles

Radparvars Washington PostNot long after Mike and I moved to our nice little two bedroom apartment here in the East Village we came across AirBed & Breakfast, a website that allows us to share your apartment with travelers on a nightly basis. When we first started taking guests we hosted a only few days a month. We had some great experiences and increased the number of people we hosted. Since we have begun working full time on Holstee, we have begun hosting much more to generate some side cash to help fund our venture. In the past month or so we have been booked nearly every-night!

The experience has been nothing short of amazing. We have had the opportunity to host travelers from: Luxembourg, France, Australia, New Zealand, DC, San Fran., Austin, Norway, Germany, and Scotland just to name a few! What’s great about hosting is it is so much more than an acquaintance, when someone stays for a few nights you get to learn about their interests, their passions, what the they eat, how they cook, how they travel, what they read, and so much more. Every new visitor is a new insight into a the way others live their lives.

Many of our guests have inspired me and my understanding of life. Furthermore much of the direction and future of Holstee has been influenced by our guests, who offer new ideas, encouragement, and tips of how Holstee can enter their country.

Recently, Mike and I were featured in a Washington Post article regarding AirBnb, and our choice to host visitors in our home. This was actually our second bit of coverage. A few months ago we were interviewed by a local NYC television station.

Over the past year the guests we have hosted have become a major part of my life, and been a major catalyst for Holstee. It’s amazing how things adapt. Four months ago, I cut off my only real source of income. While my lifestyle has changed, all of the changes of been very rewarding in their own way. Mike and I realized that we cook more, we host more, which makes us clean more, another benefit I recently noticed is that we read more. Our flexible schedules also allow us to attend more events in the city and meet more people.

Looking back over the past four months, the change to be self-employed has been a great lifestyle decision. Despite the fact that we had not calculated our expenses or even formulating a proper business plan before quitting, things have fortunately worked out. I wanted to write this post to capture our experience of hosting, as well as note the importance of adaptation. Being open minded and flexible make all the difference.

This is a reminder for me and everyone else, to forget trying to hold on to your old lifestyle, whether that means the material items you purchase or the things that you value in life. Always be open to new things and people and you will be surprised how much you can learn about what is really important for you.

new site / redesign!

Its funny how whether I realize it or not it takes about one year for me to get bored of a website design. The case was the same with incubaker which has recently undergone a major redesign (check it out!) and with this blog.

For those of you who have been reading for the last few years you have seen quite a dramatic change, and looking back you can really see my design preferences change as I have grown.

I began with my blog ‘Factor Tracker’. It was created in Blogger and was my first introduction to CSS and photoshop. I began with a heavy use of color and large graphics, but the dark background made it hard to read for the length of posts I was writing at the time. I decided to switch over to wordpress when redesigning for more functionality. I went for a cleaner theme and one header image. Not long after I created a micro site to depict more of my character and about me. This proved to be a great tool in my post college job search :-) . For a while now I have thought about combining factor tracker with my micro site. I recently decided to pull the trigger and merged the two, leading to the birth of this new face lifted factor tracker, ported over to the url of my micro site: radparvar.com/dave

I took a while of searching to find the current theme, and a bit of tweaking to make it feel like home – but I am really digging the new look. Would love to hear your thoughts!

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looking back, my favorite posts

24 Hrs Homeless

I spent 24 hrs. homeless in boston and kept a detailed journal of my experience. It is amazing how much you can learn in 24 Hrs. about yourself and others with just a pen and paper. This is one piece I love to re-read.

Viva La France

I spent over a month sleeping on random peoples couch’s while traveling through France. The graciousness i received while traveling on a tight budget is something I will never forget. I met some of the most inspirational people I have ever met in my life on this trip.  (August 28th makes for a great story ;-) )

Other good ones:

Italy Trip (The story from Ali on Jan 28th is wild.)

Turkey Trip (Another awe inspiring trip)

bad hair month…

haircut 1hair grows, hair grows, hair grow….

ok so i was just doing some homework, but i was getting tired and uninspired so i decided it would be a good time to give myself a haircut as i need one anyway.

everything was going great, in fact better than expected and i was really proud of my work. I ran in to ask my roommate for a second opinion and he equally impressed said it was great, except for a small piece which he said could use a small touch up. i placed the proper length adjustment on my buzzer and went in for the clean up, again a normal procedure. after a couple strokes, without me noticing, the length adjuster fell off and i the buzzer made direct contact…

i am still in shock. this is by far far one of the most ridiculous situations i have gotten myself into.

On the plus side, i can be confident i never will have a worse haircut than this one ever in my life :-)

Also I hope this serves as a confidence booster for anyone who ever thought they were having a bad hair day!

And lastly if nothing else i hope you got a smile at of this situation, i know i did!!

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hamburg rewind

Lets take it back to when I first moved to Hamburg. I rented a car with my buddy Ruppert and we put it to the test as we drove up the autobahn from Reutlingen, in the bottom of Germany, to the top, here in Hamburg. I was moving to Hamburg to begin my internship in Business Development with XING. merloseI moved into a WG (shared apartment) courtesy of XING. Because of how nice the apartment was, the people at work always refered to it as “Melrose Place” The apt was in in Eppendorf, a wealthier and and in some areas rather stuck up. The apt itself was very impressive, old construction, crazy high ceilings, and a modern kitchen. I lived in what was referred to as “the aquarium” a small room meant to be a garden room with large windows on all sides…not much privacy but great natural light. I lived at Melrose for about 2 months while I tried to land a place of mine own. I quickly learned getting a good apartment in a nice area in hamburg is much harder, than one would think. People are constantly moving apartments, the supply and demand are both good but the market moves fast. I eventually moved into the apartment I am living in now. A great place that I was able to land with the help of a boss of mine at work. Im living with 2 twin brothers and their father. A very laid back apartment.bimarck apt I lucked out again with the beautiful Hamburg old construction. My room is the largest in the apartment (about 25ft by 15 ft), boasting a king size bed, a chandelier, an antique furnace, and two huge windows. I felt more comfortable in this apartment within the first week than i did at the end of the two months at Melrose. The atmosphere is much more inviting here. Not long after moving to this apartment I bought my first boat. Well it is actually more of a raft. I bought the raft in Mallorca…
Let me sidetrack quickly to explain why I was in Mallorca. Mallorca (the small island off the coast of spain) was home this year to IBWE. IBWE is short for international business weekend, an annual weekend where each of the partner schools that my international business program works with, meet up for spirit and sport contests as well as a couple great parties. This was my second IBWE, I also attended IBWE in Skaggnis, England as a freshman. It was a very different experience being 3 years older, having lived abroad, being able to speak german, and knowing people form both germany as well as my northeastern friends. In short it was one of the greatest party weekends of my life ;)
Back to hamburg…so I bought the raft in mallorca and brought it back to hamburg to take it on the lake in the middle of the city, the alster. I have yet to take it on the main alster but I have taken it through the canals that spread through hamburg including across the street from my apartment. The raft didn’t come with oars, so I ventured out to make some. And I bought some bamboo broom sticks, trimmed them down with a saw and bagged and taped the bristly part so they would be firm and water proof. The oars didn’t work sooo great. A couple weekends later, I went to a nearby flea market. To my surprise I saw some oars that would be perfect for my raft. I picked up the new oars and a large painting of a Spanish matador, oil on canvas for the ombo bargain price of 8 euro. The painting now stands proudly in my room.
raft I spend my weekends exploring all hamburg has to offer, which is a lot. The reeperbahn, is our redlight district but it also offers lots of wholesome opportunities for a good time. Good bars, clubs and dance clubs. But you wouldn’t start the night off there, we normally start off in Sternschanze, an area popular with students, liberals, artists, hippies, punks, and ultra leftists. It makes for a nice scene. When I say “we” go out, im referencing a small tight group of friends that I have made in hamburg. Mostly students from my university in Reutlingen that are also doing internships in hamburg. Namely: Achoo, Zone, Import, Jojo, and guest appearances by Deuce. And of course we randomly meet up with people that we have come to meet here in the city or other places. thats a good overview of life in the Burg, but of course i have not included any of the numerous anectdotes that make life interesting. ill get some more stories out soon…

factor tracker 2.0

So the blog received its second face lift since i originally started posting. I went with something a bit brighter for the layout and changed the header image. This image is a photoshoped train that i took a foto of in Munich a couple months back and a little barcode image. No real meaning to the bar code, i just thout it looked cool :)

More important than the simple change of style, is the change of platform. I am no longer on google’s blogger. I changed over to Wordpress. It offers many more features and options. I realize it has been a while since my last post, so be prepared for an overload of stories in the following posts. Lastly the domain has changed for my blog. No longer Factortracker.com but rather radparvar.com/factortracker

I’ll be post soon with an update on life in hamburg….



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