Archived entries for philosophy

Gifts vs Choices

I came across a great post on Fred Wilson’s Tumblr. It was a quote from Jeff Bezos Princeton Commencement speech (if you have a minute its worth the read!) where he recalls something his grandfather told him…

“My grandfather looked at me, and after a bit of silence, he gently and calmly said,

‘Jeff, one day you’ll understand that it’s harder to be kind than clever.’

What I want to talk to you about today is the difference between gifts and choices. Cleverness is a gift, kindness is a choice. Gifts are easy — they’re given after all. Choices can be hard. You can seduce yourself with your gifts if you’re not careful, and if you do, it’ll probably be to the detriment of your choices.”

Materialism vs Consumerism

(This was originally posted on the Holstee Blog)

I have recently become really interested in the comparison of Consumerism and Materialism.

First I would like to set a definition for these two words.

Consumerism: the preoccupation of society with the acquisition of consumer goods.

Materialism: the preoccupation of society to material possessions and their physical composition.

These definitions are my own, and extracted from the many definitions of consumerism and of materialism available online. If you don’t agree with the definitions please share your own in the comments below.

I want to make a clear distinction in the definitions of each word, because I think that each word has a completely different implication but too often their use and understanding are confused.

Consumerism lends itself to overconsumption. People’s preoccupation with acquiring as a result of lust, reward, thoughtlessness or status often overshadows material beauty of items.

One who is materialistic (by the above definition) on the other hand, is obsessed with the composition of items. They ask questions like: “what is it made from?” “how is it made?”, and those who are truly absorbed in the item are passionate about keeping it beautiful.

Consumerism often leads to waste, old products becomes obsolete as a new shinier product becomes the the object of affection. A materialist, absorbed by the product of their passion is obsessed with maintenance. They are concerned for its material composition, where those materials came from, its durability, and chemical or physical properties. The true properties are appreciated on the most basic level, for what they truly are.

In the end people will always want and need to acquire new items, whether for survival, fun, trade, or curiosity.

To differentiate between a materialist and (over) consumerist:
Be aware of the material components, where they came from and how they came together and understand how to maintain it so it lasts as long as possible.

How else can we be sure the ecological impact of the creation of that product was not made in vain?

In the end its not the product that will make anyone happier, but its the experience you have with it. Its not about being shiny, its about having a story.

If you need to acquire something, make it something of value. Understand the materials and the impact on the planet. Keep it something of quality. Appreciate it.

The small pleasures

A new friend, Kostas the Baker, shared this inspiring video recently. A simple and beautiful clip that reminds us to appreciate the smallest details in life. It is not the big things we surround ourselves by or the things that we often save long and hard to buy that make us happy, it is the simple pleasures of daily life and finding the inherent beauty in smallest details of life that make us the happiest.

Almost a year ago I wrote the 2 keys of satisfaction:

Learn to question everything.
There are no absolutes – no truths, only interpretations.

Learn to appreciate everything.
Whether you love it or hate it, there is something to be learned and taken away. In this ‘take-away’ there is value, which should be appreciated.

To this day, both hold true and I am glad Kostas sent me this video which reminded me of them!

open by wonder

“I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.”

-Gerry Spence

(I came across this quote on the background of @dan_gould‘s twitter page. Absolutely love it.)

Holstee Manifesto

Here is the Holstee manifesto. It is a combination of thoughts and feeling that have been floating around my head for quite a while now. With a few tweaks from Mike and Fabian it was complete. It really captures our personal feelings and vision for what Holstee can mean to people. So with out any further introduction, here it is. (As always please let me know your thoughts!):

HOLSTEE MANIFESTO

This is your life. Do what you love, and do it often. If you don’t like something, change it. If you don’t like your job, quit. If you don’t have enough time, stop watching TV. If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love. Stop over-analyzing; life is simple. All emotions are beautiful. When you eat, appreciate every last bite. Travel often; getting lost will help you find yourself. Some opportunities only come once: seize them. Open your mind, arms, and heart to new things and people. We are united in our differences. Ask the next person you see what their passion is, and share your inspiring dream with them. Life is about the people you meet, and the things you create with them, so go out and start creating. Life is short. Live your dream, and wear your passion.

Download “The Manifesto

the mind is grounded in flight

Last week after returning from a trip to the west coast to visit our family and do a bit of leg work for Holstee I was discussing with mike how inspired and empowered I felt.

Its incredible how a small diversion from the daily predictable flow of a sequential lifestyle can yield such inspiring productivity. Much of this is because we are often forced into a reactionary personal and professional life…but more on my concept of reactionary later – it deserves its own post.

Back to flying. Its funny, every time I fly no matter where I am going or what is happening at that point of my life I have a mini epiphany. The freedom from reality – no cell phone, no email, no RSS feeds, no twitter –> no information overload. It allows me to take a step back and look at myself (ironically – as I write this while flying) from above.

Its also a time that my imagination and thoughts run wild. I am currently flying to SF and decided to bring David Kelly’s ‘The Art of Innovation’ to read during the flight. I read the ‘10 Faces of innovation’ a while back and had been meaning to read this for a while but waited till I finished ‘Blink’. I am finding the book highly relevant but super challenging to make progress in. Every few paragraphs I get lost in a day-dream.

Dreams are great. In fact I think imagination plays a more critical role in success than people give it credit for. I was recently listening to Brian Johnson’s ‘Philosophers Notes’ podcast. He read a fascinating quote they outlined the following concept: If your mind can dream it than it is only natural that your body can create it.

I was momentarily stunted when I first heard him read the quote. I thought that it was surely for the birds and I began to think of examples, but the more I thought the more I was convinced. Its true, anything someone is able to dream of they are able to create. The difference is the details.

Lets look at history. A while back someone dreamed of going to the moon. People probably laughed. But once you break down the process down to the very last screw and nut which keeps the astronaut in place while taking off it becomes tangible – fantasy becomes reality.

On a natural, almost evolutionary, level I think its only natural that we can only think of what we can actually achieve. Our greatest talent among our companions in the animal kingdom is our mind. We aren’t great swimmers, climbers, runners, or even the best communicators, but we have a level of imagination and critical thinking which has yet to be seen at the same level in other species.

We must harness this talent. I am a true believer that every person has something they offer that they offer better than anyone else in the world has or ever could have. I don’t think these talents are instantly identifiable, and I am not sure that the need to be because indirectly you will use your talent as it is needed, by the people around you that need it.

You could have a mind wired to constantly smile, or a brutally honest analytical sense – in either case you are able to impact other peoples lives. I just hope people use their talents unknowingly or not to create a positive impact sharing positive energy with everyone they connect with.

Love & Ideas

“Logic and over-analysis can immobilize  and sterilize an idea. It’s like love – the more you analyze it, the faster it disappears.”

-Bernbach

2 keys to satisfaction

I have realized these two ideals are the driving force for my life, the combination of both has helped me achieve the most satisfaction in my existence.

Learn to question everything.

There are no absolutes – no truths, only interpretations.

Learn to appreciate everything.

Whether you love it or hate it, there is something to be learned and taken away. In this ‘take-away’ there is value, which should be appreciated.

the price of a lesson

“Lessons are cheap, not learning from them is expensive.”

- Me :-)

compassion is fun

i found this video both true and inspirational:



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